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FAQ's
(Frequently
Asked Questions)
Please
Note: Due to the nature of this type of club, we ask that you respect
other
people's privacy and be very discreet. What you see, hear and do
here stays here.
This is privileged information and we ask that you respect this.
Please do not abuse this privilege. Thank You ~ Tariq & Linda
Here
are answers to some frequently asked questions
with regard to NATURE LOVE...
If you have any other questions which are
not covered here, please do not hesitate to ask us.
We want to make sure you're both very comfortable before you even
come out to your first event. You can contact
us by phone or the Internet.
1) May
we visit the club as non-members?
2) What are a few of the benefits of membership?
3) Do we have to be a married couple to join Nature
Love... ?
4) Are our names ever given out?
5) Do we have to be married to attend Nature Love...
events?
6) Can you help us contact someone we're interested
in?
7) Do you provide a smoking area?
8) Is there a dress code at Nature Love... events?
9) How many people attend Nature Love... events?
10) What is the age range of your members?
11) How long do the events last?
12) Can I get more involved with the club?
13) I am single and unattached. Can I join Nature
Love... ?
14) Can a woman ask a man or another woman to
dance?
15) Can we be up front about our sexual desires?
16) How do we deal with a couple who comes on
to us?
17) Don't allow yourself to be coerced into any
situation!
18) What happens if someone does not take "No"
for an answer?
19) We want to meet other couples, but we're
very shy.
20) You're club hosts are here to answer your
questions!
21) A reminder to very "experienced"
Play Couples.
22) Where are your Events
held?
ANSWERS
May
we visit the club as non-members?
No, we are a membership only club ensuring your complete privacy.
Our initial Affiliate membership is designed to accommodate couples
who wish to come to Nature Love at the times of their choosing or
leisure.
New couples must pre-register on-line
at our website or by phone.
What
are a few of the benefits of membership?
We can start by assuring you of your privacy in a club attended
by many like- minded couples. This permits a great deal of
latitude with regards to self-expression. There are advantages for
each membership package, which you can check out by selecting "Get
Invited" .
For selecting the "Platinum" Membership, you will save
$20 per couple every time you come to one of our Friday or Saturday
dances plus every member will receive a laminated special membership
card which is recognized
at all NASCA* affiliated clubs. In addition, all memberships include
a FREE
subscription to our club newsletter,
"Inhibitions"!
*NASCA is an Association of
Clubs, Events, Services
and others related to the Swinger / Lifestyle Community.
Do
we have to be married to join NATURE LOVE?
As a committed couple you'll be welcomed whether you're
married, dating, living with your significant other, or going steady.
Today's world has changed dramatically from just a few years ago.
Marriage is not a condition of belonging. Primarily couple's
and single female also attend the club.
You must be of legal drinking age in Ontario and both of
you need to know what the club is all about.
Are
our names ever given out?
No, your name, address and phone number are personal and kept 100%
confidential.
We never sell, rent, trade or share your personal
information without your express written consent.
You will not receive mail from other companies by registering with
our club; EVER!
Do
we have to be swingers to attend Nature Love... events?
No. Many couples who have joined are just looking for a
little extra excitement to spice up their own monogamous
relationship while others are active in a swinging lifestyle.
Some couples are exhibitionists, others are voyeurs, some are into
fetish wear.
Yet they all share one thing in common.
They are all open minded, fun loving, courteous and tolerant of
everyone.
Can
you help us contact someone we're interested in?
Yes, we can. If you meet someone and you wish to contact them,
we can arrange it by calling the other couple on your behalf
and providing them with your phone number. In this way
they have the option of returning the call or not.
We get these requests all the time so don't feel shy about
following up and contacting someone you've met at an event.
Do
you provide a smoking area?
YES we provide a designated area for smokers.
Is
there a dress code at Nature Love... events?
Yes. Jeans are permitted only on those nights
where the dress theme is "casual" and supports denim.
Other than this there is no established dress code per se,
unless set out in the newsletter wheresuch indicators as "Black
Tie"
or "Costume" would appear. Generally speaking,
men arrive in a pair of casual or dress slacks and sport shirt,
while women arrive dressed in party attire or cocktail dresses.
Many couples look to the theme suggested in the newsletter.
The main thing to stress is to dress for you and, as such, dress
comfortably.
How
many people attend Nature Love... events?
As we are a newly established couples' club we will
post the attendance as our memberships flourish.
An average club of this nature usually has approximately
60-100 people at these types of events, depending on the Event.
What
is the age range of your members?
Although NATURE LOVE is open to everyone of the
legal drinking age in Ontario and the US most of our
members are men and women in their 20's & 40's.
We also have many members who are 50+.
How
long do the events last?
Saturday events and special theme parties can go to two in the morning.
Friday events will generally end also one or two in the morning.
Can
I get more involved with the club?
Yes, absolutely. We'd love to have your special talents, skills
or
know-how!!! If you're interested we'd be delighted to talk to you.
Just call us.
I
am single and unattached. Can I join Nature Love... ?
Yes if you are a single female.
Can
a woman ask a man or another woman to dance?
We recognize everyone as sexually equal. That means that women
should feel comfortable "making the first move".
Can
we be up front about our sexual desires?
Yes, by all means be up front.
It is essential that everyone know up front what he or she are getting
into.
You could save everyone from a potentially embarrassing situation
later on.
For example, if you are bi and if this is important to you,
please make sure that you have discussed this with your newfound
friends. Another example might be that you expect condoms
to be used and your newfound friends are totally against it.
For example: Find out in advance as much about everyone's limits
as possible.
How
do we deal with a couple that comes on to us?
Be flattered. If comfortable with them make sure you're up front
with
them as to what you are looking for. If not comfortable,
just say "NO, thank you". Respect another couple's right
to
selectivity. We are all great people, but for one reason or another
we may not appeal to another couple NOW.
A "No"today may not mean a "No" tomorrow, but
don't be pushy about it.
Don't
allow yourself to be coerced into any situation!
If a couple or a situation makes you feel ill at ease,
perhaps it's time to invoke the rule of "No thank you".
You should never feel pressured into doing anything
you are not comfortable doing. You're here to have fun.
Being coerced is NO FUN and rarely ends with a positive note.
So if anyone persists, talk to the host couple.
What
happens if someone does not take "No" for an answer?
If a couple or a person will not take no for an answer, you
should immediately tell the host or hostess in charge about this.
They're trained to deal with this in a friendly, unobtrusive manner
without causing you or the person bothering you any embarrassment
We
want to meet other couples, but we're very shy.
As a group, couples are friendly, outgoing people.
But it is atwo way street. You should introduce yourself to the
others there.
If you're unusually shy or if the group appears
cliquish, ask your host to make some introductions for you.
That's why we're here. And remember, most couples
have come to meet other new couples
Your
club hosts are here to answer your questions!
Even if it seems to be a minor point, you won't know until you ask.
Your club hosts are used to fielding questions on many
different topics including sex-related subjects from the traumatic
to the trivial.
A
reminder to very "experienced"
Play Couples.
Take some time with new couples.
A friendly chat over a drink or a cup of coffee goes a long way.
Remember, once upon a time you were new to all this as well.
Where are your events held?
The
locations of all our events are supplied to members and guests
when reservations are made. This information is for those members
and invited guests only. We request that if you have friends that
you would like to bring, please contact
us or have them contact us for the specifics
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